A Romantic Backyard Southern California Wedding

With a stunning St. John's Lutheran Church of Orange wedding ceremony and a private backyard wedding, every detail was flawless and you can just see the joy in this couple's faces. With neutral wedding colors and the most delicious-looking wedding dessert bar, this definitely looks like a wedding every guest will remember forever.

Here's a little peek at this gorgeous backyard wedding shot by Southern California wedding photographer, XO and Fetti Photography.

Photography: XO AND FETTI PHOTOGRAPHY | Ceremony Venue: St. John's Lutheran Church of Orange | Reception Venue: Private Residence | Event Planning: KATHIE RILEY (FRIEND) | Floral: POSIES AND PETALS BY DINA | Stationery: Minted | Videography: CHAD RILEY (FRIEND) | Wedding Cake: FLYING PIG BAKE SHOP | Makeup: MAKEUP BY ERIKA PADILLA | Hair: STYLED BY MELINDA | Catering: The Slummin' Gourmet | DJ: Vox DJs | Signage: Morris Handmade | Wedding Dress: Blush Bridal Couture | Groom's Attire: Friar Tux | Bridesmaid Dresses: Show Me Your Mumu | Veil: Blush Bridal Couture | Headpiece: Blush Bridal Couture | Submitted via: Matchology

Tips for Choosing A Wedding Theme

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Your wedding day should be "totally you." When your guests look back on this magical day, they should think, "Wow, that was totally them." The cow girl boots or the converse or the lovely details DIY'd by you -- your wedding day should scream YOU.

I see so many couples styling their wedding day after what's popular and what's "totally in" right now but that's not what your wedding day is all about. Your wedding day isn't just a platform to try and create a viral photo and it isn't a day to try and fit in.

It's your day to shine and it's the start of your life with your best friend.

So let's talk popular 2018 wedding themes:

I LOVE finding unique wedding inspiration on wedding blogs and Pinterest -- that's why I'm a wedding blogger. And I love when couples see something and spin it to make it their own. But you've probably never planned a wedding before so that's where all of the fun wedding themes and wedding inspiration comes into play.

So here's my advice to you:

Click here to browse some of the 2018 trending wedding themes from Wedding Forward, choose the themes you both love, the ideas that speak to you and the inspiration that is "totally you" and create a wedding day that is all about you two, your likes, your loves and everything that showcases you and your love as a couple.

And do it because you love it, not because someone else said it was trendy.

A Colorful Virginia Beach Butterfly Garden Wedding

This butterfly garden wedding is a colorful wedding full of corals, soft pinks, yellows, oranges and whites. A Norfolk Botanical Garden wedding, they had an outdoor ceremony and reception on the terrace beneath string lights and Japanese lanterns. The ceremony gazebo was draped with white fabric and decorated with two floral swags. Laser cut wedding invitations set the outdoor theme from the very beginning, and the bird motif tied into their cake topper.

Scroll on down to see this Norfolk Botanical Garden wedding, shot by Virginia Beach wedding photographer, Caitlin Gerres Photography.

Photography: Caitlin Gerres Photography | Ceremony Venue: Norfolk Botanical Garden | Reception Venue: Norfolk Botanical Garden | Event Planning: Sterling Dawn Events | Floral: Palette of Petals | Stationery: David's Bridal | Wedding Cake: Gourmet Bake Shoppe | Rentals: Classy Event Rentals | Hair: Beauty by Sharra | Makeup: Beauty by Sharra | Catering: Creative Catering of Virginia | Reception Musicians: Brandon Bower | Wedding Dress: Oleg Cassini from David's Bridal | Groom's Attire: Jim's Formal Wear | Bridesmaid Dresses: David's Bridal | Veil: David's Bridal | Submitted via: Matchology