How I knew he was the one...

Alexandra Marie Photography

We love love. Because weddings are all about love, right?? So in the midst of our planning tips, tricks, and secrets, we wanted to take a moment to remind you what your wedding day is all about.

It's all about marriage. It's all about "the one" you are going to spend forever and always with.

So we decided to ask you how you knew when you found "the one." You may be thinking about getting engaged, asking the question soon, or at the start of a beautiful relationship and are wondering how you know when the time is right! Or you're me and just love hearing these adorable stories ;)

So sit back, relax, and enjoy :)

"The day I met him. I was a ski instructor and he was a snowboard instructor. I had a few nervous kids in my class and when he made them not only smile and laugh but also helped them understand the concept I was teaching - without ever having put on a pair of skis himself - I knew I couldn't let him get away."

"He makes me laugh and puts up with me even though I annoy him sometimes."

"I was getting rid of old clothes and he asked why. I said I don't have enough room in my closet and he told me he would give me a bigger closet! Sold! hahaha!"

"Because no matter how much he may annoy me sometimes, I can't help but smile when I look at him. I knew that from the second week in!"

"When he took me to his parent's house for Christmas after only dating for three months and told his family he planned on keeping me around for a while."

"My fiance and I have a number in common. 610. It is our birthdays (3.21.91, 3+2+1=6, 9+1=10 and 2.13.82) 610 also comes up a lot more for both of us but I am not going to write it all out lol. Also, his son is named Cayden and my daughter's name is Cadence...both named before we met! We also both had surgery and our scars match up when we are laying on each other. And then there's the obvious, I knew he was he one when I couldn't explain my feelings. They were too strong and not very understandable. I made choices involving him that I couldn't explain. Everything, just was. It was like my heart was making all decisions without my permission. Yeah, he's the one :)"

"They are not, nor do they bring drama That's how you know."

"No matter how annoyed or upset or moody I am, he never fails to make me do my embarrassing witch cackle laugh. We can be in an empty room and have the best time! We are like two mischievous kids when we're together. But most of all, after 5 and a half years togehter, we are still like loved up teenagers."

"I never get sick of his company. No matter what I am doing, I know that I would enjoy it more if I was sharing the moment with him."

"He's the one for me because he's patient with me when I lack patience. He always knows how to make me laugh even when I am mad and cheer me up or make me feel better when I am having a bad day. We built our relationship based on friendship, and have shared the same values and relationship goals for our future together. He is easy to communicate with and knows my personality even if I don't always express myself. He is the one for me because he is the one I want to talk to when something good or bad happens and he continues to push me to be a better person. He is the one for me, because he makes me feel lucky to be his fiance, and I couldn't imagine my world without him."

"They say relationships are hard, but the right one isn't. Life is still hard, sure, but my true love is always the joyful part."

A huge thank you to everyone who shared your story and reasons you know that he/she is "the one." It is always great to get some positive energy in the midst of planning and to remember what this wedding is all about!

And if you didn't have a chance to tell us, comment below with how you knew that he/she was "the one." We would love to add to our list!

What every bride-to-be must be prepared for...

It was the most amazing night of your life, thus far. The perfectly planned surprise proposal by your fiance was one you wouldn't trade for the world. And that ring?? It's instantly your favorite accessory...and the whole world knows it because of your seven posts in two days, sparkling from every angle. Everyone joins in the excitement..."That ring is stunning" or "You two are the cutest couple on Earth!" We've heard it all and it seems that everyone and their mother cannot wait for the wedding.

Did I say everyone? Okay, let's take a step back because we all know that not everyone is happy for the two of you.

"Someone flat out told my fiance, "That's stupid," when he told him he was engaged. And I've heard "time will tell, why bother?"" - Caitlin, bride-to-be

"I've heard "Oh buddy, it's over for you!" Like am I that bad to marry? Is my soon-to-be husband bound to be that miserable with me? And some just flat out say, "Good luck" and we just look at each other with our mouths open...in a state of slight shock." - Leyla, bride-to-be

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We've all heard similar statements and if you haven't, it's coming for you! Yes, I admit, it's all in good fun some of the time, and I have even found myself laughing along as a buddy says a similar statement to my husband. But in some cases (and you can tell), these are dead-serious statements that come out of people's mouths. And what do I think about that?? I think they are all just jealous.

"To me, it's the only wedding I'll ever have, so I want to do it big. But other people like to remind me that feelings change, and the divorce rate is high, something I do not want to hear when I am planning my wedding with the person I love most." - Caitlin, bride-to-be

They are jealous of the amazing relationship the two of you have and if you give them no reason to believe otherwise, who knows, maybe the two of you can eventually change their views on marriage. Maybe you truly can convince someone, through your relationship, that a marriage that lasts a life time is possible.

So what do I say to all of this? Show everyone that a marriage can last, through your own actions. Don't give anyone a reason to believe otherwise. If there were more marriages in this world that lasted, these statements would suddenly vanish but sadly, statistics currently back up these statements and arguments. If more people were staying together for a lifetime, then people wouldn't have reason to believe that all marriages end in divorce. So brush it off...I know, easier said than done. Just know, in your hearts, that the two of you will last a lifetime, and help others to see this potential.

"It makes me feel sad that not everyone has good thoughts about marriage. But this doesn't change my mind about it." Caitlin could not have said this more perfectly and this is a statement that I urge all of you to write down or keep logged in your brain. Yes I know, it can truly hurt sometimes to hear people say harsh things to your fiance...right in front of your face. But you two are the only ones who are going to make this relationship end in divorce...or last a lifetime.

But it is times like these that, throughout all of the negatively, make you stop and realize that not everyone is trying to bring you down. "He said that he has been married for 44 years and it is the best decision he has ever made. And he said that sees something really special in the two of us that he doesn't see in others. And he was so genuine." - Leyla, bride-to-be

And it is times like these, that bring a sigh of relief and allow you to realize that there are others who believe in you. A marriage can last a lifetime and we have proof.